Review on Essential Social Skills Handbook For Teenagers

 

With two types of power you can save your life from harshly effects . 

First by power of thought ; Second by power of action . 

To enhance power of thought , Knowledge is must have thing. After getting knowledge about special matter , it is now your turn to take action for your betterment. 
To all teenagers or teachers and parents who have to deal with teenagers , I will recommend this handy book . You should read this to enhance your power of thought . 
It will help you how to deal with your anxiety which is a harshly state of mind , and how to become confident in your life .
 It's language is so pure and easy that it does not hurt its main motive. 
It is helpful as it is not just Theory but includes those disciplines which are implementable in this real world . 
It explains personality and all traits related to personality . 
It is not boring . 

The writer uses the phrase " Now  , why I am telling you this ?  "  frequently . This phrase increases your interest and attention ; as after this you will find the logic and purpose of reading the material discussed in the book . The writer tried his best to involve the reader utterly . 
According to writer :
 teenage is the period of rapid changes in growth and personality. It is the tenure for which a person is not ready . Teenager is Moody and do things according to his will , sometimes which are said harmful by Aged people . 
This time is for learning how to live life after maturation. 
"Personality is how you observe , conceive , perceive and interpret your environmental events. " 
" Confidence is the state of mind in which you rely upon your abilities . You think that your abilities are suitable for you . " 
I paraphrased some main points from this book  , I hope you will find it helpful if you read it . 
So , change your personality and accommodate it according to your environment . Go , and get started today . It all starts from you .
To all teenagers or teachers and parents who have to deal with teenagers , I will recommend this handy book . You should read this to enhance your power of thought . 
It will help you how to deal with your anxiety which is a harshly state of mind , and how to become confident in your life .
 It's language is so pure and easy that it does not hurt its main motive. 
It is helpful as it is not just Theory but includes those disciplines which are implementable in this real world . 
It explains personality and all traits related to personality . 
It is not boring . 
The writer uses the phrase " Now  , why I am telling you this ?  "  frequently . This phrase increases your interest and attention ; as after this you will find the logic and purpose of reading the material discussed in the book . The writer tried his best to involve the reader utterly . 
According to writer :
 teenage is the period of rapid changes in growth and personality. It is the tenure for which a person is not ready . Teenager is Moody and do things according to his will , sometimes which are said harmful by Aged people . 
This time is for learning how to live life after maturation. 
"Personality is how you observe , conceive , perceive and interpret your environmental events. " 
" Confidence is the state of mind in which you rely upon your abilities . You think that your abilities are suitable for you . " 
I paraphrased some main points from this book  , I hope you will find it helpful if you read it . 
So , change your personality and accommodate it according to your environment . Go , and get started today . It all starts from you .

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Grace and Handsomeness of the Rasool ter: Ahmad Attar Qadri Wri As ALLAH has created the Rasool best in the world as well as He has blessed with many great properties and features. ALLAH blessed Him with handsomeness. The close companions of the Rasool صلی الله علیه و اله و سلم praised beautifully His elegance and attractiveness. Hazrat Hassan رضی الله تعالی عنه said: No one has seen such a charming and attractive man as you ; No mother has born such an elegant as you. You are created blameless , faultless and pure; It can be said that you are created such elegant as you wish. A poetical manifestation of features of the Rasool; He had handsomeness, blond colour , moderate stature , wider shoulders and dense eyebrows. He had charming and attractive colour ,wider-eyes and wider forehead, salty handsomeness and great eloquency. One can say that Hazrat Mohammad صلی الله علیه و اله و سلم was not a handsome man but he was the name of charming, attractiveness and handsomeness. Imam Busiri says about the handsomeness of Rasool; None has such handsomeness as the Rasool. There is no one competent of Him in elegancy. The reason is that the pearl of charming of Rasool is not divisible. Hazrat Imam Ahmad Raza Khan said in Hadayq e Bakhshish ; The Face of the Rasool is salty and his colour is so blonde that the seeing person can't live without accepting the light of the faith of oneness of Allah. Holy Body; Hazrat Abu Hurairah رضی الله تعالی عنه reported; The colour of the body of Rasool صلی الله علیه وسلم was very blonde. It seems that the holy body was made up of silver. (Shumail e Tirmazi) Hazrat Anas bin Malik says that: The body of Rasool صلی الله علیه وسلم was very fine and mignon. His Holy body was such soft and sweet as I never saw even if it was velvet. I never scented such odorous and fragrant aroma as I scented from the body of Rasool صلی الله علیه وسلم. (Bukhari bab e sift un nabi ) Hazrat Ka'b bin Malik says that: When the Holy Prophet صلی الله علیه وسلم became happy ; The holy face of the Rasool looked like a moon. We came to know the happiness of the Rasool by this. (Bukhari bab e sift un nabi ) The sweat drops on the holy face looked like pearls. These drops were more fragrant than musk and Anbar. The mother of Hazrat Anas رضی الله تعالی عنه set the leather bed for Rasool صلی الله علیه وسلم at which He napped. After siesta of Himصلی الله علیه وسلم , she collected the holy sweat in a small bottle and mixed it with her scents. Hazrat Anas رضی الله تعالی عنه advised a testament. " After my death my body must be scented with that mixture of fragrance and sweat of the holy body of Rasool صلی الله علیه وسلم." (Bukhari, bab: Mn za'ra qauman faqa'la inda-hum) Shadow of Holy body was not found: The holy body had no shadow. Hakeem Tirmazi has copied a Hadees from a ta'bi Hazrat Zakwa'n in his book" Nawa'dir ul osool" . The Hadees is, " In the sunshine and the moonshine, the shadow of Rasool was found." Ima'm Ibne Sab-a' says that : It was a an undoubted characteristic of the Rasool صلی الله علیه وسلم that His shadow was not formed on the earth. He was made up of light and His body was transparent. That is why, when He travelled in sunlight or moonlight, formation of shadow couldn't be found. Hadees: The Rasool صلی الله علیه وسلم said : " I'm from the light of ALLAH nad all the creations are created by my light." ( Tafseer e naeemi, para first, surah :first) Similarly, Abdullah bin Mubarak and Ibnil Jauzi reported from Abdullah bin Abbas that: " The shadow of Rasool was not formed." ( Zarqa'ni, Volume:5, page:249) Holy Body was protected from insects: Hazrat Ima'm Fakhar ul din Razi and Allama Ibn e Hijazi copied the report: " The flies and mosquitoes was never seen on the body as well as the dress of Rasool صلی الله علیه وسلم . Lices, mosquitoes and other insects was never seen on the body. " Abul Rabee' Suleman bin Sab-a' wrote the reason of prevention of insects in his book " Shifa ul sodoor fee i'la'min nubuwet ir Rasool " . The reason is that the body of Rasool was made up of light and was fragrant. While the insects like the dirtiness. So the Rasool was protected from insects." Ima'm Sabti had also written this topic in his book," Azam ul mawarid" in detail. Cachet of Prophecy: Between the two shoulders of Rasool صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم there was a cachet of prophecy. It about to the size of egg of pigeon. It was the burly spot of flesh seems to be reddish colored. Hazrat Jabir bin samrah says ." I saw the cachet of prophecy of Rasool between the two Shoulders of Rasool it was burly reddish spot about the pigeon egg ". In an other report it is said that its size was about to the pigeon egg and it was written on it " ALLAH is one . He has no partner . "O" Mohammed you will be helped everywhere. " It is also reported that it was a shining light and the observers likened its shape and size as egg of pigeon. (Hashia tirmazi ) Stature Of Rasool : Hazrat Ana's bin malik r.a says that the Rasool was neither taller nor smaller but was of median stature. His Holy body was very beautiful . When He walked , He bent down to some extent. Similarly Hazrat Ali r.a says that He was a median stature man. When He walked it seemed that He was coming down from a height. I never saw such a man as the Rasool was, neither before Him nor after. (Shumail e tirmazi) As it is accepted statement that the Holy Rasool was a median stature man but it was also the miracle of Rasool that He seemed higher than the crowd of millions people. Holy Head: Hazrat Ali r.a says that the Holy head of Rasool was "Zakhmur ra's" means very enormous. (Shumail e tirmazi Holy Hair: The Holy Hair of Rasool was neither smooth nor curly but was between these situations. First, the Holy Hair was long from head to lobe of ear. Than it was long from head to shoulders. At the Last Address ( Hajjat ul Wada' ) He polled His Hair. He often oiled His Hair. Sometimes, He combed His Hair. At His obvious last age, He make hairline in the middle of hair. His hair was black till obvious last age. There were only twenty Hair white of head and beard. At , last address, The Holy Rasool polled His Hair . These were divided among the companions of Rasool as a sacrament. The companions of Rasool protected these Holy Hair preferring their lives. Hazrat Bibi Umme Salmah r.a protected these Holy Hair in a bottle. The patient get health from the water of this bottle. It was dipped in the water. Holy brightening Face: The Holy Face of Rasool was the looking glass of Handsomeness of ALLAH. His Face was the Mazhar of Anwar-e-Tajalli of ALLAH.

Grace and Handsomeness of the Rasool  Writer: Ahmad Attar Qadri As ALLAH has created the Rasool best in the world as well as He has blessed with many great properties and features. ALLAH blessed Him with handsomeness. The close companions of the Rasool صلی الله علیه و اله و سلم   praised beautifully His elegance and attractiveness.  Hazrat Hassan رضی الله تعالی عنه  said: No one has seen such a charming and attractive man as you ; No mother has born such an elegant as you. You are created blameless , faultless and pure;  It can be said that you are created such elegant as you wish. A poetical manifestation of features of the Rasool; He had handsomeness, blond colour , moderate stature , wider shoulders and dense eyebrows. He had charming and attractive colour ,wider-eyes and wider forehead, salty handsomeness and  great eloquency.  One can say that Hazrat Mohammad صلی الله علیه و اله و سلم  was not a handsome man but he was...
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